What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence, without a standard form and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. Of course, constantly with regard for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, happy state of being. The impact is frequently a terrific physical, mental wellness. Generally, the receiver is really relaxed, incredibly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Although the majority of touch will occur through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly concentrated on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be loving!
Complete of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the strategy or the wanted sequence of massaging that is crucial, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore often take an extremely unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We understood it for a very long time, naturally, however since the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always should be guaranteed. Loving attunement constantly comes.
Set clear limits ahead of time
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is likewise totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Typically resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to end up being more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring and so much more. In fact, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Due to the fact that this is precisely what happens typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is totally allowed! A tantra massage is normally good, often tasty. We, therefore, invite you to totally enjoy getting ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (targeted at pleasure complete satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, but of an entirely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well due to the fact that you are truly very energetic during/after the massage. You do not drop off to sleep (unless you are very exhausted), you are very alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual satisfaction, we would call it different. Tantra massage is certainly not a therapy! It's a type of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage certainly has recovery results, but that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Develop in combination (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear limits beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, news naturally. However, know that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Delighting in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply integration moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or perhaps vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing impact. It is possible that obstructions, emotional injuries come to the surface area. There might be a psychological release, including physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you discover exactly what it is like to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a wonderfully liberating and deeply pleased feeling.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love change, you might end up being not only happy but even blissful. A delighted state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, overjoyed state of being of the recipient.
* Usually leading to a terrific physical, mental wellness (of both).